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        <blockquote><p>What&#39;s on your holiday wishlist? </p></blockquote><p>
Same thing that was on last year:&#160; to be divorced and sell the house. </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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Well, I&#39;ve been doing some locked posting other than the lyric of the day, but I know there are people who aren&#39;t on vox that read my blog and have been wondering what&#39;s up.&#160; Therefore, a year in review - especially since today was a major significant day in my family last year.</p><p>So:<br /><ul><li>This time last year I was in Philadelphia waiting for my aunt to have her kidney removed because she had kidney cancer.<em><br />She&#39;s now doing very well - better than she has in years.</em></li><li>Around the time of my grandmother&#39;s 90th birthday, things came to a head with my not-soon-enough ex and we decided to divorce.<br /><em>I&#39;m still in that process and am tired of it.&#160; I just want it over.</em><br /></li><li>I started living life the way I want to, on my terms, as who I am.&#160; <br /><em>This is the healthiest and happiest I&#39;ve been in years.&#160; I have good friends and have really found what&#39;s important to me.&#160;</em></li><li>Work is work.&#160; I&#39;m always looking for something else, but in the current climate of FL libraries, I&#39;m hesitant to change jobs.<br /><em>I like what I do and most of the time where I do it.&#160; Right now, I have the hat trick of stress:&#160; divorce, selling a house and people close to me dying.&#160; I don&#39;t need to add a 4th stressor.</em></li></ul>The only thing I can add is that at this exact time, I have had, for the better part of the past 2 weeks, in and out of my head, the following song.&#160; For those who get it, bear with me.&#160; It&#39;s a rollercoaster that I&#39;m not really minding riding at the moment.&#160; It is what it&#39;s supposed to be.&#160; And it&#39;s all just fine.</p><p><em>This is not about love<br />Cuz I am not in love<br />In fact, I can&#39;t stop<br />falling <br />out...<br />I miss this stupid ache.<br />-Fiona Apple, &quot;Not About Love&quot;<br /></em><br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Bush is responsible for my inability to divorce...</title>   
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        <p><a href="http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/story/12699486/paul_krugman_on_the_great_wealth_transfer">From this week&#39;s <em>Rolling Stone</em></a><br /><blockquote><blockquote><p><em>The gap between the nation&#39;s CEOs and average workers is now ten times greater than it was a generation ago.&#160; And while Bush&#39;s tax cuts shaved only a few hundred dollars off the tax bills of most Americans, they saved the richest one percent more than $44,000 on average.&#160; In fact, once all of Bush&#39;s tax cuts take effect, it is estimated that those with incomes of more than $200,000 a year - the richest five percent of the population - will pocket almost half of the money.&#160; Those who make less than $75,000 a year - eighty percent of America - will receive barely a quarter of the cuts.<br />...<br />According to the federal Bureau of Labor Statistics, the hourly wage of the average American non-supervisory worker is actually lower, adjusted for inflation, than it was in 1970.&#160; Meanwhile, CEO pay has soared - from less than thirty times the average wage to almost 300 times the typical worker&#39;s pay.<br />...<br />Although corporate executives have always had the power to pay themselves lavishly, their self-enrichment was limited by what Lucian Bebchuk, Jessie Fried and David Walker - the leading experts on exploding executive paychecks - call the &quot;outrage constraint.&quot;&#160; What they mean is that a conspicuously self-dealing CEO would be forced to moderate his greed by unions, the press and politicians:&#160; The social climate itself condemned executive salaries that seem immodest.<br />Lately, however, we have experienced a death of outrage.&#160; Thanks to the right&#39;s well-funded and organized effort, corporate executives now feel no shame in lining their pockets with huge bonuses and gigantic stock options.<br />...<br />Under Bush, the economy has been growing at a reasonable pace for the past three years.&#160; But most Americans have failed to benefit from that growth.&#160; All indicators of the economic status of ordinary Americans - poverty rates, family incomes, the number of people without health insurance - show that most of us were worse off in 2005 than we were in 2000, and there&#39;s little reason to think that 2006 was much better.<br />...<br />Finally, there&#39;s the government&#39;s most direct method of affecting incomes: taxes.&#160; In this arena, Bush has made sure that the rich pay lower taxes than they have in decades.&#160; According to the latest estimates, once the Bush tax cuts have taken full effect, more than a third of the cash will go to people making more than $500,000 a year - a mere 0.8 percent of the population.<br />...<br />Furthermore, the administration has engaged in a systematic campaign of disinformation about whose taxes have been cut.&#160; Indeed, one of Bush&#39;s first actions after taking office was to tell the Treasury Department to stop producing estimates of how tax cuts are distributed by income class - that is, information on who gained how much.&#160; Instead, official reports on taxes under Bush are textbook examples of how to mislead with statistics, presenting a welter of confusing numbers that convey the false impression that the tax cuts favor middle-class families, not the wealthy.<br /></em></p></blockquote></blockquote>Basically, what it means that if this hadn&#39;t been allowed to go on, I might be able to sell my house and move on with my life.&#160; If he hadn&#39;t been so concerned with the richest of the rich instead of those that actually make this country work, the misperception of a bad economy (or maybe it&#39;s an accurate perception) and the general malaise felt by people in my income bracket would be less and people would be more willing to buy.&#160; </p><p>Read the whole article.&#160; Be outraged.&#160; Write your elected officials.&#160; Maybe we can actually get the momentum to switch back to us working stiffs...<br />  </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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